Which was pretty serendipitous, for I had been focusing heavily on that topic throughout the second half of 2024 myself!
As someone who has spent the better part of the last nine years living alone, I have realized the incredible importance of self love in a “family of 1.”
Sure, friends and family are nice support systems, but when you are single for large chunks of life, the connection and love you share with yourself becomes the Primary Relationship — and quality of life determiner.
And likewise, so many Lively Community members who have partners and children often neglect the Primary Relationship with themselves while serving the needs of their families.
Single, partnered, or in a bustling family… we all show up better for ourselves and those we love when we come from a full Inner Cup.
For three months, we met in an online members club to share in our journeys of deepening that all important Primary Relationship. And we also learned from experts in workshops on fun topics to enhance many aspects of our lives… for soul & self, body & health, and style & wealth!
TLC includes 13 weekly calls with Bella and TLC community and 12 additional workshops.
The Love Club is part of the Joy Alignment Bundle
For our first month, we will dive into Club Calls with Bella on any topics or hot-seat coaching that feel relevant in your self-love journey. Additional focus on understanding self-love from the soul and self perspective will be discussed.
We also have four guest workshops on the topics below.
Let's dive into our subconscious and release outdated beliefs / unworthiness and enhance our self-love on a deeper conscious level with Rachel Crethar.
Let's dive into the magic that our Venus and Mars placements in our birth charts can bring to our masculine & feminine energies with Maria Strakhova.
Let's dive into 'deconditioning' in Human Design with expert and HD author, Erin Claire Jones. We will peel back layers of societal and familial expectations that have shaped us, often at the expense of our true selves and innate worthiness.
Let's unwind with a soothing sound bath from opera singer and bestselling crystal book author, Yulia Van Doren. She will be sharing her new sound bath incorporating crystals with crystal sound bowls... perfect to listen to live, and as many times as we like later in recorded form!
For our second month, we will dive into Club Calls with Bella on any topics or hot-seat coaching that feel relevant in your self-love journey, with additional focus on self-love in regards to body, health, and wellbeing.
We also have four guest workshops on the topics below.
Let's learn from Jac, the founder of the wildly popular The Daily Co. skincare line. With over 30 years of client skincare experience, Jac will share what we can do to best support our skin in each decade of our lives.
Let's dive into the powerful world of epigenetics and wellbeing with The Designer Genes, Co. founder, Lindsey Lekhraj. Lindsey will share the lesser known, incredibly powerful supplements and peptides that may benefit our bodies. *This topic has been life-changing for Bella!*
Let's learn how to drain the lymph and release tense fascia using gua sha for the body with Neeta Sharma! Neeta is the founder of the Grounded 1002 body range. She will teach us the techniques and benefits of fascia and lymph massage for our health and beauty! This is one of Bella's fave discoveries of 2024.
Let's dive into a longtime favourite of Bella - cupping for lymph drainage - with the founder of Legology, Kate Shapland. Kate will teach us how to get the lymph moving, break down old cellulite, and add contouring... all while boosting the body's health and circulation.
For our third month, we will continue diving into Club Calls with Bella on any topics or hot-seat coaching that feel relevant in your self-love journey at this stage of the game, particularly as it relates to your style, home, and money / investments.
Bella shares all her lessons and mistakes in her outfitting journey so you can save yourself time, money & discover your own unique style in the process.
Bella teaches how to find your own Bella Vita-worthy style and bring it into your home and life.
Bella shares the nitty gritty of what she has done to bring her financial avoidance into financial awareness. Learn how to assess, connect to your inner voice on money, and get the most out of this important aspect of modern life.
Curious on how your inner voice aligns to investing? In this workshop Bella teaches you how to work with your inner voice to get clarity on your ideal and highest aligned investment path now and moving forward.
“Every week, it felt like we were invited into Bella’s room — the beautiful big sister who lets you sit on her bed while she shares her life, her wisdom, and her beauty rituals. Bella is a true thought leader in what it means to live a beautiful life on your own terms.
Somehow, Bella holds space for big feelings while maintaining a zero-tolerance policy for victimhood. I found this incredibly empowering.
One of the most surprising parts of TLC was that we weren’t asked to simply accept or love everything we didn’t like about ourselves or our lives. Instead, there was space and support to take action — to actually do something about it. That shift was powerful. Now, when I’m upset about something, I don’t immediately try to force acceptance. First, I ask: Is there something I can do? And then—I do it.
Since TLC, my life is full of habits and rituals that truly take care of me.”
– Jenny Black
